#theredlipstickrevolution

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Good Morning Wonderful People, I hope your day is off to an excellent start!

I came across a very interesting website the other day, and a story there really captured my attention. Whenever you have time please go take a look at www.womenforone.com 

Let’s look at a story written by Fateme Banishoeib titled “Red Lipstick Revolution.”

“The other morning, I was getting ready for work and decided I was going to wear a red lipstick. I wore my red lipstick and headed to the office, no longer merely the good girl who is afraid to be noticed, to appear less smart, less credible, too feminine. I was the wild woman so excited to fight for her freedom.

Walking to the office was a metaphor for walking through my vulnerability. I was faced challenge of integrating the two parts, the good girl and the wild woman debating in my mind. I cannot remember any other day where my walk to the office was so long. I was afraid of being noticed and judged.

Silly comments on my red lips arrived both from men and women. The point isn’t about my receiving a silly comment versus a nice one. We must be aware that women and men are held to double standards and we women not only allow it—we perpetuate it. I myself that morning labeled and judged myself, fearing that I wasn’t being appropriate. I myself took freedom from myself.

The implicit bias we carry around and how we label situations and humans concerns me. My red lips did not add or take away from my leadership skills. I am not suddenly less credible or less smart because of them. I do not become somebody else because I wear red lipstick. I believe that we actually become somebody else and lose who we are when we try so desperately to fit in.

True leadership starts with self and by embodying our values every day, with or without lipstick. The same applies when we are the one making comments and labeling another woman based on our implicit bias. The implicit bias is a double-edged sword that affects both the victim and the perpetrator.

We need to actively play a role in dismantling inequality and write new stories of inclusion. We get to be the ones who name ourselves without labeling ourselves.

Women of business, women of science, women of politics, women on boards, whoever you are: What happens when you paint your lips red?

Wearing that lipstick that morning, for me, was a sign of embodying the mission I am on: to foster a world where everyone is treated equally, and our humanity is recognized.

Take the time to stand up for yourself and attend the red lipstick revolution.

I have a challenge for you: Portray yourself in a selfie or ask a colleague to hold your hand as you take a picture of yourself wearing red lipstick.

Share your story to increase awareness, to create real change and a more inclusive society. Share your own story of liberation and transformation.

As I discovered that day, the red lipstick revolution needs all of us.” 

What are your thoughts on the idea of red lipstick? That day Fateme was on a journey of her own like many of us.

When we wake up in the morning we have the choice of being our own person or being defined by what society thinks is correct. What is really correct?

Whenever we decide to break the norm and look different we are automatically placed in “that” category. Now what is “that” category? No idea. It is a category created for people who are not a clone of the majority of the population. For now let’s call “that” category the red lipstick team.

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What is wrong with wearing red lipstick?

Why should it define the capabilities that one has?

Does it send too much of a strong message? If so, isn’t that also based on too much of strong interpretation?

Let’s join and support Fateme on her journey. You can get more information on her article here.

#theredlipstickrevolution

Keep Smiling Friends,

Manisha Sareen                                                                                                                                 Instagram: manisha21                                                                                                                                   Facebook: Manisha Sareen                                                                                                                               Twitter: manishasareen3

 

 

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2 Comments Add yours

  1. Hi Manisha thanks for your support. It’s going to take all of us. I’m curious to hear your #redlipstickrevolution story.

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    1. Hi Fateme! Thank you so much for your comment. Sure! Maybe we can talk through whatsapp?

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